Contract Love Proves Nothing
“If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them.” - Luke 6:32 (CSB)
Jesus asks a question that most of us would rather not sit with. If you love people who love you back… what’s remarkable about that?
That question dismantles the illusion that we are more loving than we really are. Most of what we call love has fine print attached to it. We love, but we expect appreciation. We serve, but we want acknowledgment. We forgive, but we keep mental receipts. Our kindness often operates like a contract. It flows as long as it benefits us.
Jesus repeats this three times in the passage. Love those who love you. Do good to those who are good to you. Lend expecting repayment. And each time He asks, what credit is that?
The word He uses carries the idea of grace, favor, reward. In other words, what evidence is there that God’s grace is at work in you if your love looks exactly like everyone else’s?
That question should humble us.
There is nothing supernatural about reciprocal love. Everyone does that. You do not need regeneration for that. You do not need the Holy Spirit for that. You do not need the cross for that. It requires no new heart.
Jesus is not trying to shame you. He is diagnosing you.
The goal of this passage is not to make you nicer. It is to expose what drives you. Because if your love is transactional, your heart is still operating on leverage. And Jesus did not save you so that you could continue loving the way the world loves.
He saved you to reflect your Father.
Let this land gently but honestly. The point is not self-condemnation. The point is clarity. Before we can love without leverage, we have to admit how often we have used it.
Reflection Question
Where has your love been more transactional than you wanted to admit?
Reciprocal love requires no cross. Gospel love does.
Prayer
Father, expose where my love has had conditions attached. Show me where I have called self-protection wisdom and leverage maturity. I do not want to love like everyone else. I want my life to reflect Your grace. Search me and begin reshaping my heart. Amen.
Jesus asks a question that most of us would rather not sit with. If you love people who love you back… what’s remarkable about that?
That question dismantles the illusion that we are more loving than we really are. Most of what we call love has fine print attached to it. We love, but we expect appreciation. We serve, but we want acknowledgment. We forgive, but we keep mental receipts. Our kindness often operates like a contract. It flows as long as it benefits us.
Jesus repeats this three times in the passage. Love those who love you. Do good to those who are good to you. Lend expecting repayment. And each time He asks, what credit is that?
The word He uses carries the idea of grace, favor, reward. In other words, what evidence is there that God’s grace is at work in you if your love looks exactly like everyone else’s?
That question should humble us.
There is nothing supernatural about reciprocal love. Everyone does that. You do not need regeneration for that. You do not need the Holy Spirit for that. You do not need the cross for that. It requires no new heart.
Jesus is not trying to shame you. He is diagnosing you.
- Where does your love have hooks in it?
- Who receives your warmth because they are easy?
- Who receives your edge because they are not?
- Where have you convinced yourself you are being spiritually mature when you are simply protecting yourself?
The goal of this passage is not to make you nicer. It is to expose what drives you. Because if your love is transactional, your heart is still operating on leverage. And Jesus did not save you so that you could continue loving the way the world loves.
He saved you to reflect your Father.
Let this land gently but honestly. The point is not self-condemnation. The point is clarity. Before we can love without leverage, we have to admit how often we have used it.
Reflection Question
Where has your love been more transactional than you wanted to admit?
Reciprocal love requires no cross. Gospel love does.
Prayer
Father, expose where my love has had conditions attached. Show me where I have called self-protection wisdom and leverage maturity. I do not want to love like everyone else. I want my life to reflect Your grace. Search me and begin reshaping my heart. Amen.
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