Kindness: Love in Action

"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." – Ephesians 4:32

Kindness is often misunderstood in our culture. Many equate it with being polite, agreeable, or “nice.” But biblical kindness goes far deeper. The Greek word Paul uses in 1 Corinthians 13 refers to active goodness that flows outward, often at personal cost. True kindness doesn’t just wait for opportunities—it seeks them out. It isn’t contingent on someone’s worthiness but is rooted in God’s character.

Jesus showed us this in action. He didn’t stop at feeling compassion; He moved toward people in tangible ways. He touched lepers, dignified women who had been cast aside, ate with tax collectors, and ultimately gave His life for His enemies. His kindness wasn’t a veneer of niceness—it was a costly love that sacrificed reputation, comfort, and even His life.

For us, kindness might look less dramatic, but it’s no less powerful. It could mean forgiving a friend who hurt you, sharing time with someone who is lonely, or offering encouragement when it’s inconvenient. Often, the most Christlike kindness happens in the hidden spaces where no one applauds—where only God sees.

This is why Paul ties kindness to forgiveness. To show true kindness is to release someone from the debt they owe you, just as Christ released you from the debt of sin. When kindness flows from God’s mercy rather than our convenience, it becomes a reflection of the gospel itself. Today, ask yourself: Are you settling for being “nice,” or are you stepping into costly kindness?

Reflection Question
What is one specific way you could show costly kindness to someone today that reflects God’s character rather than just cultural politeness?

"Paul uses the Greek word and this literally means to show goodness, benevolence and graciousness at your cost. It means moving towards others with gentleness, graciousness and generosity."

Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank You for Your overwhelming kindness toward me, especially when I least deserved it. Transform my heart so that kindness isn’t just an occasional act, but a daily lifestyle. Help me to see opportunities where I can move toward others with costly kindness, even when it requires sacrifice. May my actions point people to You, the God whose kindness leads us to repentance. Amen.

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